jelai

hi po to all noypians out der...kmusta po kayong lahat.its been moths since i last posted a new thread/post here...

super busy lng kc ako sa work and on some personal matters...
just want to ask help to all newly weds jan or kahit sa mga hnd newly weds...pano nyo po nalaman na your ready na to get married? or pano nyo nalaman na "sya na nga ung taong gusto nyong mkasama habang buhay"?

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-be what you want, but be the best of what you are-

"im ready to face a new chapter of my life...a new life together with the one i chose to be with forever"

xxxray73

hi.... sagutin kita kahit sobrang late na ha...

readiness? hindi siguro malalaman.. but mararamdaman would be the appropriate word.

Pag naintindihan mo ng mabuti and kaya mo ng i-share ang bawat word from the phrase "for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in health or in sickness, 'til death..." - with your partner at hindi hati (sa yo ang una at kanya ang pangalawa). yun siguro kaya mo na.

same principle should apply sa inyong pagsasama. hindi split kundi sharing sa halos lahat ng bagay - house chores, minsan pera, at higit sa lahat yung hindi nakikita.. yung emotional and spiritual aspect of the relationship.

Tatanggapin mo sya as a human being.. hindi yung tao na kinikilig ka pag nakikita mo nung nanliligaw pa lang. You will have to accept not only his strength, but his weaknesses as well. Loving not only his accomplishments but admiring his resilience at times when he is going against the current.

Settling down with someone, not only in matrimony, means taking on the responsibility of being a friend, a lover, an advisor, and many other different role for that special someone - being a good partner.

Pag iisipin mo pag isusulat mo.. parang ang hirap...

pero in a way it is pretty easy.. it is very simple.. you just have to follow your heart....

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"Be careful what you wish for, not because you might get it but because you're doomed not to want it once you do."
- The life of David Gale

jelai

wow! thanks for the comment...

cguro nga its true na hnd m mlalaman but mararamdaman m lng... i cant explain kasi the feeling..

pero is it normal ba na minsan parang napapaisip ako if tama ba na mgpakasal ako sa knya? or sometimes my instances na nagdududa ako sa nraramdaman k towards him.. do i still need time to think over and over again my decision to settle down with him?

__________________
-be what you want, but be the best of what you are-

"im ready to face a new chapter of my life...a new life together with the one i chose to be with forever"

xxxray73

hi again...

sa tingin ko naman eh napag-isipan mo na yan mabuti eh... pwede sigurong pre-marital gitters na lang yan.

anyway, lagi namang scary sa umpisa.. parang first day of school, first time behind the wheel...first date... first kiss... first...hehehe.. laging nakakakaba ang first time. laging andun ang mga what ifs... laging nagdadala ng butterflies in the stomach ika nga.

but i assure you.. dalawa kayong kinakabahan at nag-iisip. so don't worry too much.

the most important thing is that everytime you make a decision as big as this one... you always try hard to make it work.. key is wag mo kakalimutan yung start.... bakit sya ang pinili mo bakit sya ang minahal mo. you should always look back to those sweet moments when you decided na sya ang gusto mo makasama habang buhay.

at pag may mga problema u never sleep unless you have talked about and resolved even the littlest issue na dapat ayusin. forget about too much pride. okay lang to show him your fear, your weaknesses... hindi pwedeng laging kung sino tama... the important thing is pano aayusin ang problema. nakakalimutan natin minsan na who we have beside us is our partner at hindi shock absorber. sa halip na maging kakampi.. sya ang una nating inaaway. ginagawa nating outlet yung dapat sana eh source ng strength natin.

but anyway.. cheer up! this is gonna be one of the best highlights of your life. a start of another new and exciting chapter of a telenovela na ikaw ang bida.... so enjoy..

so all i can say is good luck and i wish you all the best....

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"Be careful what you wish for, not because you might get it but because you're doomed not to want it once you do."
- The life of David Gale

jelai

im guilty bout that...hnd k naisip kung xa kya kinakabahan din, or my mga questions din like me..


anyways, thank u for all the advise...

__________________
-be what you want, but be the best of what you are-

"im ready to face a new chapter of my life...a new life together with the one i chose to be with forever"